fma%u iïnkaOhla we;s lr .ekSfï § jf.au újdyhla lr .ekSfï§;a wm úúO lreKq .ek fidhd n,kjd' ndysr fmkqu" fofokdf.a woyia yd reÑ wreÑlï" wdodhï ud¾. jeks lreKq fï w;ßka m%Odkhs' fuys§ woyia yd reÑ wreÑlï .e,msh hq;=hs lshk u;h kï ksjerÈ tlla fkdfjhs' mqoa.,hka fofokl=f.a woyia tlsfklg .e<fmkafk keye' tfyu .e<fmkjd kï ta Ôúf;a rij;a fjkafk;a kE'
fldfydu jqK;a újdyhl§ Th lreKq ish,a,gu jvd ie,ls,a,g .; hq;= ldrKhla ;sfnkjd' ta ;uhs wdor iïnkaO;djhlska újdy fjkj kï “wms fokakd we;a;gu wdofrhso@” lshk ldrKdj iy fhdað; újdyhla kï ‘wms fokakd w;r wdorhla f.dv kef.ñka ;sfnkjdo’ lshk ldrKh'
wdorh lsh,d fndfyda fofkla jgyd f.k bkafk whs;s lr .ekSu ^possesion& hs' kuq;a wdorh iy whs;s lr .ekSu w;r f,dl= fjkila ;shkjd' wdorh lshkafk udkisl iqj iykh we;s lrjk yeÛSula whs;s lr .ekSu lshkafk ukig mSvd we;s lrjk ldrKhla
whs;s lr .ekSu lshkafk fudllao@
wms idudkHfhka whs;s lr .kafka NdKavhs' ta wkqj we÷ï me<÷ï f.org jqjukd lrk úúOdldrfha NdKav" fudag¾ r:hla fï wd§ jYfhka fkdfhl=;a foaj,a fï NdKav w;rg .efkkjd' fï NdKavj,g ì,am;a " iuyr tajdg j.lSï iy;sl" jdykhla kï fmd;la wd§ jYfhka ,efnkjd' wms fï NdKav f.or ;shd .kafk wmg ´kE yeáhg wms leu;s ;ekl' fï ;uhs whs;s lr .ekSfï iajNdjh' tajd wmg wjYH úÈygu mej;sh hq;=hs'
Tn wdorh lrkj lsh,d ys;df.k bkafka fï iajNdjhgo@
whs;s lr .ekSu lshk ixl,amfha§ uQ,sl jYfhka n,mj;ajk lreKq folla ;sfnkjd'
kS;s oeóu
we÷ï me<÷ï .ek" weiqre lrk hy¿ fhfy<shka .ek hk tk .uka ìuka .ek hkd§ yeu fohla .eku kS;s Í;s mekùu fuys iajNdjhhs' ta lshkafk NdKavhla fuka wmg wjYH úÈyg mej;Suhs' ta wkqj kS;s tlla yß levqfjd;a fndfyda fihska wfkld iu. fldamhg lkiai,a,g m;a fjkjd'
ks;r mÍlaId lsÍu
bkak ;ek .ek úuiñka ks;r ÿrl:k weu;=ï §u" fudlo lrkafk' ljqre tlalo bkafk wd§ jYfhka mÍlaId lsÍu fï wh ;=< oelsh yelshs' fïl;a NdKavh .ek ie,ls,su;a ùu .ek ;uhs' ta wkqj ;ukag fkdlshd yÈisfhkaj;a fldfy yß .sfhd;a Tjqka ;on, fldamhg iy ys;a fõokdjg m;a fjkjd' fï ;;a;ajh jeä ÈhqKq jqfKd;a ,sx.sl B¾IHdj ^pathological jealous& kï udkisl wdndOh olajd j¾Okh fjkak mq¿jka' tjeks wdndOhla we;s jqfKd;a ta mqoa.,hd ksid iyldßh$iyldre úYd, udkisl mSvkhlg ,la ùu j<laMMjkak nE' we;eï úg ta ksidu weh$Tyq úYdo frda.hg^Depression& ,laùug nyq, wjldYhla ;sfnkjd'
whs;slr .ekSfï iajNdjh lshk whf.a uQ,sl ,laIK jkafk fïjdhs' kuq;a .ukla ìukla hdfï § wdrlaIdj ;sfnkjo@ m%udKj;a ;rug uqo,a ;sfnkjo@ lEjo ìõjo wikSmhla ;sfnkjd kï thg m%;sldr .;a;o wd§ jYfhka fidhd ne,Su fuu mÍlaId lsÍu hg;g .efkkafk kE'
whs;s lr .ekSu lshk l%shdj,sh ks;ru fofokdgu udkisl johla' wms ys;uq fï whs;slr .ekSfï l%shdj,sh jeäfhkau lrkafka fmïj;d lsh,d' túg tu fmïj;d ks;ru isákafk fmïj;sh .ek ìhlska' thd ug wysñ fjhso lshk mSvdj Tyqg ks;ru jo fokjd' whs;slr .ekSug ,la jk fmïj;shg fmïj;df. fï yeisÍï f,dl= udkisl johla úÈyg oefkkak mgka .kakjd' wms uq,skau lshQ NdKavhla whs;s lr .ekSfï l%shdj,shg fïl;a iudkhs'
kuq;a iuyr fmïj;shka jf.au fmïj;=kq;a ta úÈyg ;uka .ek fidhd n,kjg leu;shs' Tjqka ys;kafk wdorh lshkafk tal lsh,hs' wdorh ksid lrk fidhd ne,Su lshkafk kS;s oeóu fyda ks;r fidaÈis lsÍu lsh,d Tn ys;kj kï Tng jerÈ,d' lsisu i;=gla ke;s udkisl mSvkhla ;uhs whs;s lr .ekSu lshkafk' wdorh lsÍu lshkafk ta úÈfy udkisl wd;;sh we;s lrjk ;;a;ajhla kffuhs' Ôú;fha i;=g" iem;" iqjh" ldhsl yd udkisl fi!LHh jeä ÈhqKq lrjk fohla ;uhs wdorh lsh,d lshkafk' ta we;=f< .eífj,d ;sfhkafk wfkla mqoa.,hd i;=gq jk ;rugu ta foi n,d ;ukq;a i;=gq ùuhs' ta wdorh ;=< nh fyda ielh kE' ta jf.a wdorhlska ne£ isák fofokl=f.a újdyhka b;du id¾:l tlla fõú'
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